While it can be easy to look at those who are struggling to turn their lives right side up and judge them, we’re all just a few steps away from their situation.
Homelessness and drug abuse are both often triggered by some sort of monumental loss — whether it’s the loss of a job, loved one, sense of self or some other form of security that’s often taken for granted, there’s usually some trigger that starts the downward spiral.
When Jeanah Nomelli came across a man digging through trash nearly a decade and a half ago, she didn’t know what had brought him to his current state — but she was curious.
“This is Will. 14 years ago he was homeless and addicted to heroin,” the police officer wrote in an Oct. 24 Facebook post. “We met as he was digging in the dumpster looking for recyclables.”
“I asked him what possessed a man to do such a thing … he shared that his wife died unexpectedly and in the wake of her death, he tried heroin – ONE TIME and became addicted.”
“He lost his home and job as a result of his addiction,” she continued. “Over the next several months, Will and I developed a friendship. I looked forward to posting at hatch and Herndon in hopes I’d get to see him. I liked him more than my partner at the time so I enjoyed seeing him as often as I could!”
“We helped each other through a few tough times by offering advice and life experience. Then – one day he was gone! I never saw him again … over the years I’ve wondered what happened to him. I wondered if he was even alive.”
But Will was alive — and doing well. And years later, he spotted the woman who’d approached him when he was at his lowest point and had to speak to her again.
“God allowed our paths to cross again … ironically in a different Chevron,” Nomelli wrote. “He was waiting for me outside the bathroom. He stood there with tears in his eyes and asked if I remembered him. It took me about 2 seconds and I knew!! It was my Will!!”
He was doing better. So much better.
His life had turned around completely, thanks to Nomelli’s kind assistance and support.
“He nostalgically reminded me about a pair of boots and a jacket I gave him to make sure he didn’t freeze,” she wrote. “I also gave him $7 to get his ID … with a promise that he wouldn’t spend it on drugs. He kept his promise! He got his ID, and a job, later a wife and found grace in the arms of our heavenly creator!”
She shared that they “snot cried” in the middle of the gas station convenience store, but managed to get the clerk to take a photo of them.
“I wanted to share this story because kindness matters!! IT MATTERS!” she wrote. “It can change the course of someone’s world! You may never know it, but Will is proof of that! Be Kind in All you do! One day it will find you and overwhelm you with eternal gratitude.”
Nomelli’s heartfelt post has garnered over 6,000 shares and 13,000 reactions. Love What Matters picked up the story, where it got another 25,000 shares and 115,000 reactions.
Their story clearly touched the hearts of many people, and they’re both happy to encourage others with their tale.
“I have permission to speak for both of us, Will and I are honored to be able to spread a message of LOVE and KINDNESS across this meaningful platform!” she added. “Thank you ‘Love What Matters’ for allowing it to happen!”
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